... about my interest for macro- and microphilia. Trying to find new aspects every now and then, that could make the fascination more understandable for me.

We all suffer from feelings of inferiority sometimes, and also know what it`s like to feel helpless. Some of us accept that, while others don`t. I guess macro is a way to express the way we feel inside, or how we want to be seen. Maybe we like to be giant, because we want to get noticed, and also need to have everything under control. If a giant person wants to be caring or destructive depends on his/her own attitude. On the other hand we could imagine to be shrunk, because we want somebody else to take care of us, or to get dominated. Another reason might be to still get accepted, even though we show our own vulnerability. Knowing, that we often just didn`t get the love we actually deserve. This might have kept us pretty small so far, as well. What if we believe in the wrong concept of love, and imagine that things have to be like this... The question is: In what way do those fantasies influence our different kinds of relationship? And how much influence did our parents or other people have for the way we think?

It`s a fact, that we already develop our own model of relationship in our childhood. Maybe that`s why most of us remember to have had macrophile fantasies back then for the very first time...

Best wishes,
Lars